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100			_aAdams, Jay Edward
245			_aThe Christian counselor's manual _cJay Edward Adams
246			_anone
260			_aGrand Rapids, Michigan _bMinistry Resources Library, _bBaker Book House, _c1986. _c1973.
300			_a476 p. : indexes ; _c23 cm.
505			_aPart One: The Persons I. The Persons Involved in Counseling Always More than Two At Least Three II. The Holy Spirit Is the Principal Person His Work Is Holiness All Christians Benefit from His Counsel III. The Human Counselor Who Should Counsel? Counseling Is Ministerial Qualifications for Counseling Authority in Counseling Counselors Must Be Directive The Personality of the Counselor IV. The Counselee You Already Know a Lot Sources of Knowledge No Surprises Necessary Solutions for Every Problem What the Counselor Needs to Know How to Prior Knowledge Helps Counselees Can Change Part Two: The Presuppositions and Principles V. Presuppositions and Principles Basic to Counseling A Limited Number of Presuppositions and Principles VI. Hope Hope of Change Everyone Needs Hope Specific Problems Requiring Hope How to Give Hope VII. Prayer: The Base for Christian Counseling VIII. The Reconciliation/Discipline Dynamic The Three Steps The Purpose and Benefits of Discipline Where to Begin? Marriage, Divorce, and the Reconciliation/Discipline Dynamic IX. Reconciliation A New Relationship Forgive and Forget? Forgiveness First Is Granted, Not Felt X. Presuppositions and Methodology Expert Knowledge Freudianism Behaviorism Common Knowledge Rogerianism O. Hobart Mowrer Divine Knowledge A Judging Activity A Convicting Activity A Changing Activity A Structuring Activity XI. Technique Part Three: The Practice and Process. XII. The Language of Counseling Language Is Important Confronting Counselees About Their Language Deadly Euphemisms XIII. The Language of Emotion and Action Feeling Attitude Behavior XIV. Sin Is the Problem Counseling Is Warfare Opting for the Desire-Oriented and Motivated Life Feeling-Oriented Counseling Decision Making Common Themes Sin Themes Expressed in Individual Styles Satan and His Associates Feeling and Doing Case by Spencer Are Feelings Important? Responsibility and Sin Temporal Insanity The Influence of Childhood Training XV. Love in Counseling Love Is the Goal Must One First Love Himself? What of One's Self-Concept? The Counselor's Approach What Is Love, After All? XVI. Support, Sympathy, and Empathy Modern Ideas Not a Biblical Concept Support Is Harmful What of Sympathy and Empathy? XVII. The Motivation for Change Be What You Are Implications for Counseling Reward/Punishment Other Means of Motivation Choosing the Motivational Method XVIII. Effecting Biblical Change Change: The Goal Change Is Hard Changing the Past Changing Present Patterns form the Past Changing Life Patterns Failure to Effect Changes That Stick Dehabituation and Rehabituation Breaking and Establishing Habits XIX. Elements of Dehabituation Becoming Aware of Patterns Discovering the Biblical Alternative Structuring for Change Breaking Links in the Chain of Sin Resistance Restraint Getting Help from Another Stressing the Whole Relationship to Christ To Avoid Gimmicks To Handle Life-Dominating Problems Practicing the New Pattern Cases of Change The Case of Bill and the Traffic Light The Case of Benjamin and the Toll Booth Summary XX. Getting Started Advertise How to Stimulate Counseling Counseling Center or Study? What About Counseling Intimate Friends? The First Session XXI. Goals and Terminal Dates Early Morning Fog Setting Goals and Objectives Checking Up on Failure General Goals and Procedures for the Weekly Counseling Session Transitional Matters The Discovery and Discussion of New Data Flexibility Adaptation to Counselees XXII. The Commitment of the Counselee Is Talk Therapeutic? XXIII. Is There a Problem? Counsel or Counseling? XXIV. Two Basic Approaches The Intensive Approach The Extensive Approach XXV. Ways of Gathering Data A Vital Activity Halo Data Core Data Get the Facts Note Taking Use of Notes Responsibility and Data Gathering Gathering Legitimate Data XXVI. Asking Questions What to Do About Agenda Problems Why People Come Discovering Problem Patterns Scheduling Probing The Kinds of Questions to Ask Let Questions Grow Out of the Data Received Ask Questions of Yourself How to Handle Rambling Replies How to Handle False Data XXVII. Helping Through Homework Offering Initial Help Through Homework The Professional Counselee XXVIII. An Analysis of Homework Small Assignments/Large Changes Multiple vs. Single-Stranded Problems Homework: Sets a Pattern for Expectation of Change Clarifies Expectations Enables Counselors to Do More Counseling More Rapidly Keeps Counselees from Becoming Dependent Upon the Counselor Enables One to Gauge Progress or Lack of It Allows Counselors to Deal with Problems Under Controlled Current Conditions Homework Helps the Counselor Failure to Do Assignments Recouping Samples of Actual Homework Assignments XXIX. Ways of Using Homework Using the Conference Table A Sample List Variations on the Theme Problem Solving Through Modeling Modeling as Homework Rebuilding Trust A Fresh Start XXX. Gifts that Differ Gifts and Fruit of the Spirit Biblical Principles Counseling Implications XXXI. How to Handle Anger Anger Not Necessarily Sinful Anger May Become Sinful Ventilation Internalization How to Handle Anger Righteously Help Counselees to Redirect Anger. XXXII. Dealing with Envy, Brooding, Fretting, and Self-Pity Envy Brooding and Self-Pity How to Change the Situation Discovering the Presence of the Problem XXXIII. Helping Depressed Persons What Is Behind Depression? Avoiding Depression How the Counselor May Help What About the So-Called Manic-Depressive Offering Help How Not to Handle Depressed Persons XXXIV. Helping the Schizophrenic What Is Schizophrenia? Mystics: Visionaries or Sinners? Sleep Loss Catatonic Schizophrenia XXXV. Resolving Sexual Difficulties In Marriage Biblical Principles of Sex General Counseling Procedures Guilt Over Sins Sexual Ignorance Helping Young People to Handle Masturbation Masturbation Is Sin Masturbation Can Be Overcome How to Counsel Persons Involved in the Sin of Homosexuality Treat It As Sin What to Do to Help Total Structuring XXXVI. Helping Those Who Fear Love and Fear Fear and Punishment Eliminating Fear by Love Fear of Consequences Phobias Tension and Fear (Stage Fright) Tension: A Matter of Degree Distinguishing Objects of Fear XXXVII. Counseling Those Who Fear That They Have Committed the Unpardonable Sin What Is This Sin? What Can Be Done XXXVIII. Conclusion.
600			_aPastoral counseling - Consiliere pastorala - Пастырское душепопечение
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